Category Archives: Spirituality

Exceeding Obligations

“I’m not obligated to do that.” There are two reasons people say that. One is to legitimately protect themselves from being used and abused. The other is to be a lazy pain in the ass. Cry all you want about special circumstances, but in my life I have come to the conclusion that these are …

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Own Your Victimization

“Repeat after me, ‘I am not a victim,”. I would hear this from a bitchy ex-girlfriend of mine quite often when I would mention how unfairly I had been treated, or how it is sometimes near impossible to overcome the inertia of multiple large setbacks which I have faced all of my life. I’d repeat …

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Optimizing Optimism

Be honest with yourself. You’re just Too XYZ to ever be an optimist. Yes, you have read the articles and books. You have seen the movies. You have perhaps even attended the seminars and workshops. All of them insisting that the key to success in any endeavor is a constant stream of optimism. Total faith …

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Two “Holidays”

Today of course is Hallmark Day. Or is that Valentine’s Day? Or is there a difference? It also just happens to be the Chinese New Year. I am not Chinese, but I honor the day more for the Chinese New Year than I do for that other atrocious corporate farce. I’ve never liked Valentines Day …

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